正義感
A keen Sense of justice
除非你能以公正的態(tài)度對待他人,否則即無法培養(yǎng)出吸引入的個性,而且也無法達(dá)到明確目標(biāo),正義感的一項不可或缺的根本要素,就是“有意的誠實”。
Unless you deal justly with others you cannot hope either to cultivate an attractive personality or to succeed in your definite major purpose.The essential component of a keen sense of justice is a dedication to intentional honesty.
許多人把誠實當(dāng)做是一種權(quán)宜之計,但由于這種誠實態(tài)度彈性太大,致使它可能會被扭曲成謀求自己利益的一種手 段。在培養(yǎng)坦白的說話態(tài)度時,你就已經(jīng)在實踐有意的誠實 方面,跨出了重要的一步;你必須堅持這種誠實美德,并且無論是否會為你帶來立即的好處都要實踐它。
Many people are honest for the sake of expediency, but this kind of honesty is so flexible that it can be contorted to serve in any situation which furthers their interests.By cultivating frankness of speech,you are already taking an important step in practicing intentional honesty;you must adhere to that honesty so closely that you practice it under and circumstance,whether or not it promises you any immediate gain.
即使正義感無法使你抓住每一次的獲利的機(jī)會,但它卻 能為你帶來下列的實際好處。
Even if a keen sense of justice prevents you from seizing every opportunity, it carries with it a host of practical benefits:
1.它為你建立起信心的基礎(chǔ);沒有了信心你將無法培養(yǎng)出吸引人的個性。
It establishes the basis of confidence,without which you cannot have an attractive personality
2.它建立起深具魅力的誠摯和健全的性格。
It builds a fundamentally sincere and sound character,which by itself is a powerfully attractive trait
3.它不僅會吸引他人的注意,同時還提供獲得真正而 是永久不變之個人利益的機(jī)會。
It not only attracts people but offers opportunities for real and lasting personal gain
4.它使你培養(yǎng)出自立和自重精神。
It builds your sense of self-reliance and self-respect
5.它強化你的道德良知,并因而使你的行動更為迅速, 因為此時你的動機(jī)和欲望比以往更加清晰。
It strengthens your relationship with your conscience and thus allows you to act more promptly since your motives and desires are clearer
6.它吸引值得你交往的朋友并且擊敗你的對手。
It attracts worthwhile friends and discourages you enemies
7.它敞開你的心胸迎向信心。
It opens your mind to faith
8.它保護(hù)你兔子陷入破壞性的爭議,想想看有多少杰 出人物因為言行不慎而走上自我毀滅之路。
It protects you from destructive controversies.Consider how often people of prominence are laid low by revelations of impropriety
9.它鼓勵你以具有魅力的個性朝飼明確目標(biāo)邁進(jìn)。
It inspires you to move toward your definite major purpose with greater personal initiative
正義感不僅是一種獲得實質(zhì)利益的工具,同時還能強化 各種人際關(guān)系,它驅(qū)除貪婪和自私,并使你更了解你的權(quán)益 和責(zé)任,而所有其他個性也將因為有了正義感而更有力量。
A keen sense of justice is not merely a tool for gaining material rewards.It enhances every human relationship.It discourages avarice and selfishness and gives you a much better understanding of your rights,privileges,and responsiblities.With it,every aspect of attractive personality grows stronger.