如何讓女孩來吻你?

One of the most common questions that gets asked is "When should I kiss the girl?"

男人們最常問的問題就是“我什么時(shí)候可以吻她?”

The number one thing men worry about is rejection. No man wants to attempt to kiss a woman only to get shut down on the spot. Most men are so scared that they won't even bother trying to a kiss a girl!

男人最害怕的事莫過于被拒絕了。當(dāng)男人想要與女孩接吻時(shí)被拒絕，這種感覺沒有幾個(gè)男人受得了。大多數(shù)男人害怕被拒絕，所以連嘗試親吻女生的想法也被扼殺在了搖籃里。

So when do you know when a girl is ready to be kissed and how can you make her want to kiss you?

那么，你怎么知道一個(gè)女生什么時(shí)候準(zhǔn)備好你去親她?又或者讓她主動(dòng)來親你?

There are a number of ways to do this:

秘籍就要來了：

感情是基礎(chǔ)

1) Build value

感情是基礎(chǔ)

A girl isn't going to kiss you without getting to know you first. Therefore, you must build a sufficient amount of rapport and comfort before a girl will even think about touching you, let alone kissing you! You need to tell stories, flirt, touch, and ultimately get her sexually attracted to you before you can even think about going in for the kiss.

在女孩子了解你之前，她是不會(huì)親你的。因此，想要女孩子觸碰你，甚至親吻你，你就要給她足夠多的親切感和舒適感。你可以給她講講故事，調(diào)調(diào)情，碰碰小手，直到對(duì)方被你吸引，這時(shí)你才能想想接吻這樣的舉動(dòng)。

One of the best ways to build comfort is, as I said, touch! Touching is an extremely intimate and fun way to get a girl interested in you. If a girl is comfortable with your touch, she's well on her way to get comfortable with the idea of you kissing her.

建立舒適感的一個(gè)好方法就是觸碰。要想讓女孩子對(duì)你感興趣，觸碰是一種非常親密而且有趣的方式。如果女孩子對(duì)你的觸碰感到自在的話，她也會(huì)逐漸對(duì)你想要親吻她的想法感到自在。

搜尋興趣指標(biāo)

2) Check for IOI's

搜尋“興趣指標(biāo)”

IOI's or "Indicators of Interest" are clues women give off when they're genuinely interested in you. Here are examples of a few IOI's.

IOI是興趣指標(biāo)的意思。如果女孩子真的對(duì)你感興趣的話，就會(huì)流露出這些“興趣指標(biāo)”。下面舉幾個(gè)例子：

-When a woman asks for your name

當(dāng)她問你的名字時(shí)

-When a woman touches you

當(dāng)她觸碰你時(shí)

-When a woman fixes her hair when she sees you

當(dāng)她邊看著你，邊整理頭發(fā)時(shí)

-When a woman faces you during a conversation

當(dāng)她在談話中看著你時(shí)

-When a woman looks at you for no apparent reason

當(dāng)她沒有特殊理由而望著你時(shí)

And so on. If you begin to get these IOI's from your targeted female, chances are she's ready to be kissed!

諸如此類的動(dòng)作就是“興趣指標(biāo)”。如果你從你心儀的對(duì)象那里得到這些暗示的話，那就意味著，她已經(jīng)準(zhǔn)備好你去親吻她了!

索吻測(cè)試

3) Run the "Kiss Test"

索吻測(cè)試

This test should only be conducted if you're receiving IOI's on a regular basis. The general rule of thumb is one IOI per minute. If you've achieved this "IOI Rate", she's primed and ready for the Kiss Test!

只有當(dāng)你不斷得到“興趣指標(biāo)”的暗示時(shí)，你才能進(jìn)行索吻測(cè)試。經(jīng)驗(yàn)之談是如果你到了每分鐘就能收到一個(gè)暗示的階段，那說明她已經(jīng)準(zhǔn)備好了，你可以去嘗試親吻她了!

The easiest place to conduct the Kiss Test is on a couch where you are both sitting down. If you think she's ready for the kiss test, lean over to her and play with her hair a little bit. Start touching her hair from the top of her head all the way down to her chin. If she likes what's happening, lean in for the kiss! Simple!

進(jìn)行索吻測(cè)試最好的地方就是在你們同時(shí)坐著的沙發(fā)上。如果你覺得她已經(jīng)準(zhǔn)備好了，那么靠向她，撥弄她的頭發(fā)。從頭頂?shù)较掳停宦窂纳系较碌赜|摸她的頭發(fā)。如果她不反對(duì)你這么做的話，靠近她，準(zhǔn)備吻她吧!就這么簡(jiǎn)單!