1.記住該記住的，忘記該忘記的。改變能改變的，接受不能改變的。

remember what should be remembered, and forget what should be forgotten.alter what is changeable, and accept what is mutable.

2.能沖刷一切的除了眼淚，就是時間，以時間來推移感情，時間越長，沖突越淡，仿佛不斷稀釋的茶。

apart from tears, only time could wear everything away. while feeling is being processed by time, conflicts would be reconciled as time goes by, just like a cup of tea that is being continuously diluted.

3.怨言是上天得至人類最大的供物，也是人類禱告中最真誠的部分。

complaints are the greatest offerings that god obtains from human beings, as well as the most faithful prayers human beings might utter to god.

4.智慧的代價是矛盾。這是人生對人生觀開的玩笑。

wisdom appears in contradiction to itself, which is a trick life plays on philosophy of life.

5.世上的姑娘總以為自己是驕傲的公主(除了少數(shù)極丑和少數(shù)極聰明的姑娘例外)。

girls always look on themselves as proud princesses, with the exception of a small number of either extremugly or exceedingly smart ones.

6.如果敵人讓你生氣，那說明你還沒有勝他的把握。

it can be inferred that you lack confidence in a victory over your rivals from the fact that you're irritable against them.

7.如果朋友讓你生氣，那說明你仍然在意他的友情。

from that you would get angry with your friends, we can conclude you sitll care about the friendship between you.

8.令狐沖說“有些事情本身我們無法控制，只好控制自己。” 可是，他算什么!!

“ something is out of our control, so we have to command ourselves.“ said linghu chong, a known character in a chinese novel about persons adept in martial arts. who is, however, fucking he?

9.我不知道我現(xiàn)在做的哪些是對的，那些是錯的，而當我終于老死的時候我才知道這些。所以我現(xiàn)在所能做的就是盡力做好每一件事，然后等待著老死。

only till my natural death.could i tell which of what i have been doing is right or wrong, so now i have to try to do well in everything, and then wait to die a natural death.

10.也許有些人很可惡，有些人很卑鄙。而當我設(shè)身為他想象的時候，我才知道：他比我還可憐。所以請原諒所有你見過的人，好人或者壞人。

some may be wicked, and some may be despicable. only when i put myself in their position did i know they are more miserable than i. so forgive all that you have met, no matter what kind of persons they are.